For me, the atmosphere of the US
is very easygoing. I don't say just American people are easygoing. I have another reason to think so.
In US, there are truly many
different types of people, like Caucasian, African, Latino, Asian… Also, all of them have their own language and
unique cultural background. These things are too different to understand each
other quickly. So in my opinion, people in the US can’t understand each other
without some effort. That’s the point. That’s the reason why I feel it
comfortable and easygoing.
Melting pot |
In Japan, everyone is so
similar, I mean, people in Japan are really monotonous. Mostly all of them share
pretty close cultural backgrounds like common senses, childhood memory, food
preferences, sense of beauty, academic background and so on. I would understand what the middle-aged guy sitting next to me in the subway thinks, and also what the school girl sitting in front of me feels too. Do you think that is
comfortable and convenient? Sometimes yes, I guess.
However, knowing too much about
each other sometimes can be another big problem. I mean, your every single behavior tells other people about yourself in detail. What you feel and what you think can be
conveyed really easily without any effort.
Freezing pot |
In contrast, in the US, every
communication needs some effort. This must be an overstatement, but maybe people
can never understand each other completely! So, in that sense, people don’t
have to pay too much effort to know about each other. Everyone can be, and should be what
he/she wants to be. I like this circumstance. I love it! I don’t care
about others anymore.
Going her own way... |